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		<title>Attention to Intention</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 19:52:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>DeBorah Beatty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow! I can&#8217;t believe so much time has gone by since my last post. You have my profound apologies. I just got caught up in moving to Portland, surviving the loss of my beloved laptop, and creating a whole new website!
Talk about a lack of attention to intention.
What exactly is that three-word phrase and what [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! I can&#8217;t believe so much time has gone by since my last post. You have my profound apologies. I just got caught up in moving to Portland, surviving the loss of my beloved laptop, and creating a <a title="My main site" href="http://www.createdlife.com" target="_blank">whole new website</a>!</p>
<p>Talk about a lack of attention to intention.</p>
<h3>What exactly is that three-word phrase and what does it mean?</h3>
<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-50" title="carrot_and_the_stick" src="http://www.oughtapilotgone.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/carrot_and_the_stick-150x150.png" alt="carrot_and_the_stick" width="135" height="135" />As I mentioned in my <a title="OughtaPilots are rather like fleas" href="http://www.oughtapilotgone.com/oughta-pilots-…her-like-fleas/" target="_blank">last post</a>, the phrase, &#8220;Attention To Intention&#8221; popped into my consciousness one night when waking up from a dream. What it means to me is that you need to always keep your intention clearly in your mind. I know the idea is a little insulting, but the process involved is rather like the old carrot on the stick. Keep the carrot (intention) always before you and you&#8217;ll always be moving forward towards your goal. Keeping it present is the most important aspect of this; that and having a clear goal in the first place.</p>
<p>Once you get your sights set on the prize, it&#8217;s a lot easier to not be diverted by all the Oughta-Pilots(tm) that show up as soon as you&#8217;ve identified it.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-57" title="woman with roses" src="http://www.oughtapilotgone.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/woman-with-roses-150x150.jpg" alt="woman with roses" width="150" height="150" />You can&#8217;t believe how wonderful it feels when everyone around you is giving you advice and yet you don&#8217;t lose sight of what you&#8217;re doing and why and you can take their advice, but remember that advice is worth what you pay for it. By that I mean, you don&#8217;t have to take it as gospel, consider it if it sounds valid, but remember it may not be any truer than anything else you&#8217;ve heard.</p>
<h3>WE Are In Charge Of Our Own Choices</h3>
<p>I say there are only a few truths: Water is wet, rocks are hard and perhaps there&#8217;s a few more out there, but you get the idea. You do NOT have to do what your parents/teachers/spouses/guru-of-the-days  say once you&#8217;ve chosen to live a life of your own making. They&#8217;re trying to do the same thing you are &#8211; find happiness and satisfaction. Poor folks who don&#8217;t know what you do &#8211; that we&#8217;re all in charge of our own choices.</p>
<p>So, to summarize, choose your goal(s), and don&#8217;t lose sight of it.  Keep it in front of you somehow &#8211; with a vision board, bulletin board, screensaver, anything that works for you. Filter all advice through your own belief system, disconnect the oughta-pilots(tm) and fly, baby, fly!</p>
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		<title>Oughta-Pilots Are Rather Like Fleas</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 20:54:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>DeBorah Beatty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My poor little (?) doggie, Hobo, had fleas.  We&#8217;re in the final stages of erradication (I hope).  But as I was spraying under and over his bed in our room once again, it occurred to me that fleas are very much like Oughta-Pilots(TM) in that just when you think you have them controlled and gone, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My poor little (?) doggie, Hobo, had fleas.  We&#8217;re in the final stages of erradication (I hope).  But as I was spraying under and over his bed in our room once again, it occurred to me that fleas are very much like Oughta-Pilots(TM) in that just when you think you have them controlled and gone, one or two will pop back up and bite you!</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-39" title="hobo1" src="http://www.oughtapilotgone.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/hobo1-150x150.jpg" alt="hobo1" width="150" height="150" />I&#8217;d wash him and his bedding, air out the rattan basket, vacuum and spray the rug under the basket and any place he&#8217;d been laying and he&#8217;d get into his basket, ready for a nap (he does that very well, by the way) and just when he was relaxed and drowsing off, he&#8217;d suddenly jump up and out of the basket and start scratching and biting at himself. Poor thing.</p>
<p>He caught fleas last Thanksgiving when we visited my daughter and stayed at the Travelodge near the Portland Airport (don&#8217;t ever stay there with a pet). <img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-40" title="i-hate-winter" src="http://www.oughtapilotgone.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/i-hate-winter-150x150.jpg" alt="i-hate-winter" width="150" height="150" />He&#8217;s one of those dogs allergic to fleabites so we almost lost him. But the battle sure has made me think.</p>
<p>How many times have we thought that we&#8217;d handled an issue, a problem, a test or a challenge and thought we were finished with it? So we relax and go about our merry way until it shows back up and smacks us in the face once again?</p>
<p>I woke up with a start the other evening, with three little words going around and around in my brain -</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>ATTENTION TO INTENTION</strong></span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">I&#8217;d be really interested to hear what those three words mean to you.  Next post, I&#8217;ll discuss what they mean to me.</span></p>
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		<title>Are you running on Oughta-Pilot(tm)?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2008 17:49:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>DeBorah Beatty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you doing what you were born to do or what you have learned to do? It isn&#8217;t always easy to discern the difference.
What is an Oughta-Pilot(tm)?
The precise definition of Oughta-Pilot(tm) is:
Letting an &#8220;ought to&#8221; or a &#8220;should&#8221;  be the primary motivation for how you live your life, the choices and decisions you make and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="sticky_post"><p>Are you doing what you were born to do or what you have learned to do? It isn&#8217;t always easy to discern the difference.</p>
<h3>What is an Oughta-Pilot(tm)?</h3>
<p>The precise definition of Oughta-Pilot(tm) is:</p>
<blockquote><p>Letting an &#8220;ought to&#8221; or a &#8220;should&#8221;  be the primary motivation for how you live your life, the choices and decisions you make and the attitudes and feelings that arise therefrom.</p></blockquote>
<p>Oughta-Pilots can be yours or someone else&#8217;s, but they&#8217;re stringy and sticky and really hard to get rid of &#8211; sort of like the cockroaches in my first apartment.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-54" title="shame small" src="http://www.oughtapilotgone.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/shame-small.png" alt="shame small" width="97" height="150" />I spent the first 47 years of my life doing everything others said or thought I &#8220;oughta&#8221; do. I made myself miserable trying to do and be what my parents, teachers, spouses and so-called friends said I &#8220;should&#8221;.  Then, one day, I woke up and claimed my own BirthRight. Now I live a conscious, created life and take responsibility for my actions.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve started teaching others how to disconnect their OP&#8217;s as well. There is a specific process I have developed and I&#8217;m tickled to say, have folded into a 6-week e-course as well as an all day workshop. The e-course will allow you to work through the process in privacy, but if you want to really turbocharge the experience and get going on a new course, the workshop is the way to go.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re all trying to do a little better for ourselves, right? Working for things like&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li> More Money</li>
<li>A Better Career</li>
<li> A More Loving Relationship</li>
<li>A Healthy Weight and Body Image</li>
<li>And a &#8220;Better Lifestyle&#8221; Overall</li>
</ul>
<p>I&#8217;ve got something which can help you do all of this and more. And over a 6-week period, I want to personally share these things with you. If you&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>need help to define exactly what you want</li>
<li>need to have your questions answered</li>
<li>need to learn practices necessary to live a created life</li>
<li>need to learn specifically how to manifest the health, money, and relationships you yearn for</li>
</ul>
<p>&#8230;then I can help you. <img src='http://www.oughtapilotgone.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>My exclusive, 6-week &#8220;Disconnect Your Oughta-PilotTM&#8221; course is designed to bring you a new understanding of who you are, what you want and where to go next.</p>
<p>The 6-week course includes teleseminars, interactive networking calls, guest speakers, and more. You&#8217;ll also be able to discuss everything and get your questions answered in an online forum.</p>
<p>Watch this space to find out when it&#8217;s ready to launch.  I&#8217;m looking for beta testers now.  If you&#8217;re interested in participating, please send me an email at contact (at) oughtapilotgone (dot) com.</p>
<p>Till next time,</p>
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